The Problem Is Not The Problem
The real cause of a problem In our efforts to help people resolve a problem, we may trust that a person’s version... Read More
How To Look Beyond The Problem – If You Really Want To Help
We all process reality differently You can probably recall incidences where you’ve experienced an event in a completely different way to someone... Read More
Eye Accessing: How To Make Out What People Really Think
Posted on09 Apr 2018
Tagschange, coaching, communication skills, learning, NLP, problem solving, self talk, self-awareness
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“My eyes make pictures when they are shut.” Samuel Taylor Coleridge A subscriber emailed and said she had some questions about what... Read More
Can Personalities Really Clash?
Personality Clash When I was a young schoolgirl there was a girl in my class who hated me with a vengeance. Others... Read More
How To Make Learning Difficult: The Curse Of Talent
Teaching a skill isn’t easy Have you ever tried to teach or coach someone a skill that you think is easy but... Read More
How To Make Heart-felt, Courageous and Creative Decisions
Raglan Radio Podcast Last week I was interviewed by Aaron Mooar, who, as you’ll hear, was fascinated to learn more about our... Read More
3 Ways To Nurture Creativity And Unlock Your Crazy
People insisted I was crazy! Yes, in 1994 when I bought an Apple computer to begin my business I was told I was crazy. That’s... Read More
How To Use Quirky Questions To Avoid Blaming & Irritation
Posted on18 Aug 2016
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News headline: “Man arrested after house and cars torched.” “A 30-year-old Blenheim man has been charged with arson following a suspicious house... Read More
A Big Chunk Or A Small Chunk?
Posted on29 Jan 2016
TagsBusiness, coaching, communication skills, conflict, language, NLP, perspective, self-awareness, stress
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Chunking up and down Joe was referred to me after he’d resigned from his job in frustration. His company didn’t want to let... Read More
What A Bloody Starling Can Teach Us
Sometimes we need to take a step back to learn Julie, my sister and I, came home from shopping one day, laden... Read More
How Your Mental Landscape Affects Your Relationships
Posted on31 Aug 2008
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Your Mental Landscape What if the way you thought about someone, the way you pictured them in your mind’s eye, in your... Read More
Why Not To Ask Why!
Posted on01 May 2007
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Have you ever noticed the reaction? When you ask children – or adults for that matter – ‘why’ they’ve made a mistake... Read More
